Another Opening, Another Show

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…well, friends, here we go again. I have another novel coming out this fall! But this time, I’m starting—and ending with a question for you:

Do you know, or do you know someone whose life has been affected by their own or someone else’s addiction? (I’m asking specifically about addiction to a chemical substance, as opposed to other possible addictions such as gambling, screen time, and other uncontrolled behaviors.) It might be alcohol. It might be pain pills, like oxycontin, or Percocet. Could be Xanax. Adderall. Anything that might be prescribed or bought on the internet or from a friend or, legally– in a liquor store or bar or even in a pharmacy—at least originally.

My next novel deals with substance abuse and how it affects people in ever-widening circles radiating out from the addict. Of course, it generally affects family members the most directly and destructively—in addition to the profound damage it does to the life of the addict. Friends become involved, sometimes as support people for the family members, sometimes as enablers. Sometimes just as people who know about what’s going on but feel genuinely helpless to do anything helpful.

Have you ever been in one of those positions?

I have been in all of them. Some people in my own big family—on both sides—have struggled with alcoholism and drug addition, and there have been serious illnesses and deaths caused by both. The toll this takes on survivors can be devastating. Blame gets dished out, guilt endures, recovery is slow, painful, and ambiguous if and when it occurs. And in my life as a therapist, I have dealt—not with substance abusers themselves because that is very much a specialty that is separately licensed—but with people whose lives have been affected by them. Often, their survivors.

But this novel is not about me, nor about anyone I know or have known. I wouldn’t do that. It’s about one way addiction begin, rather innocently, and how the people around addicts get drawn in and affected. It’s about danger, the difficulty of breaking free, family dynamics, elder care, rural crime, and it’s about what constitutes justice, how people get there or don’t. And lastly, it’s about the possibility of hope. The power of survivors when they band together.

So, again the question: Have you or anyone you’ve known had his/her life touched by substance addiction? If you’re willing, perhaps add how it is or was affected? (I’m not wanting anyone to identify individuals! Please don’t be deterred from responding. You can use a category (like relative, friend, neighbor, work colleague, or make up a name, or whatever you want!)

Anything you’re willing to share can go in the section for comments below—scroll down to it! (please don’t use the reply key as it will only go to me individually and won’t then be part of the conversation. I read and respond to every one! You may also comment, if you wish, on what someone else has said here by using their first name.)

As always, I’m sharing the cover of the new novel with you first, before anywhere else. It will publish on October 13, this coming fall.

So, as I said, another opening, another show…and I can’t tell you how grateful I am for your interest and support. (And, I hope, for answering the question.)

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